Kendall Eckenrod was born in the Philippines on July 2, 2009 as a result
of an unplanned pregnancy. Her birth
parents were both 18 years old, uneducated and unemployed. They have one son at home who is 13 months of
age. Kendall weighed 4 pounds and 2
ounces at birth; however, she was born prematurely at 35 weeks gestation. The birth mother acknowledged having poor
nutrition during the pregnancy and was a smoker. Shortly after delivery, Kendall was placed
for adoption because her parents were both financially unstable and felt that
they could not support another child. She was placed in a facility for two
years before a final adoptive family was found.
Identifying concerns noted are her premature birth, poor gestational
nutrition, mother smoking during pregnancy and mother’s two pregnancies in
short period.
As a newborn, Kendall appeared to be a very healthy baby. She reached
her milestones relatively on time. She was rooting, sucking and grasping at age
appropriate expectations. However, Kendall had episodes where she was a very
agitated baby. She would cry and fuss a lot and was difficult to comfort. This resulted in an obvious need for
immediate attention. She was often placed in a swing to sooth her agitation
because the placement facility was understaffed and crowded. A problem Kendall faced was that she was
unable to develop a caregiver bond, which is crucial to development. The way we
are treated determines our life long mental health. In addition, our early
experiences with caregivers shape our adult love. Because of Kendall’s unique
situation, she was unable to experience that bond which has resulted in her
constant need and want for some type of attention, which sometimes results in
Kendall acting out. In addition, because the adoption agency is short staffed,
her bonding time with the individuals working there is limited and sometimes
inconsistent. This may result in some future problems, behaviorally or
psychologically.
Developmentally, Kendall’s language seemed to be on point. At 3 months,
Kendall was reacting to loud sounds, recognizes specific voices, cooing, cries
depending on specific needs, and is smiling. The only issue Kendall seemed to
be facing was a lack of attention and more frequent crying. At 6 months,
Kendall was able to follow specific sounds with her eyes and respond to changes
in tones of a voice. She also frequently noticed toys that made sounds and
often would get very distracted from these toys. Kendall was babbling with
bilabials (/p/, /b/, and /m/) and often babbled more than the typical
child. Often she would babble louder
than another child who was also babbling. Again, this seemed to demonstrate her
persistent need and reassurance of attention.
At 1 year old, Kendall began to take her first steps. However, it is
important as a caregiver to the child that the caregiver is close when they
begin walking. This was a difficult task in an adoption facility. She however
developed all her gross motor skills on time. At this time, Kendall however showed
signs of difficulty following simple commands and would become distracted with
outside stimuli resulting in Kendall no longer paying attention. She would also
move very quickly from one activity to another. This posed a serious concern
for some signs of ADHD. Her constant need for attention, consistently
distractibility, difficulty paying attention, and some behavioral issues seemed
to indicate that she was showing signs of Attention- Deficit Hyperactivity
Disorder. The adoption agency noted this in their files however, they were
tentative and thought she was too young to make an official diagnosis.
Kendall’s speech developed normally, she was pointing to pictures when
named in books, was acquiring new words on a regular basis and was using some
two- word combinations when speaking. Kendall’s undiagnosed ADHD signs
continued up to her official adoption when she was 2 years old.
Kendall was officially adopted at 2 years of age from a couple from San
Diego, California in the United States. Leroy and Susan Eckenrod were
respectably 39 and 37 years of age. They tried to have children for years
however were unable to so they began the adoption process. Susan is a science
teacher at Mt. Caramel High School in San Diego and Leroy in a police officer.
The couple was very excited to finally become proud parents. The adoption
process went through Bay Area Adoption Services in California. Kendall arrived
in the United States and met her new caregivers in August of 2011.
Leroy and Susan reported that Kendall seemed to be a relatively happy
baby; however seemed to have some emotional and behavioral problems that
occurred. Still, they assumed that this was to the sudden change in atmosphere
and the overwhelming attention of new faces. They also noticed Kendall having a
difficult time attaching to them but they also felt that is could be a possible
result of the adoption process. Nevertheless, at 3 years of age, Kendall was
talking much more and becoming more comfortable but they started to notice more
signs of ADHD. Kendall was having a difficult time paying attention, she wasn’t
listening, was very distracted, would fidget a great deal, talk a lot, would
not take turns when playing with other kids, would blurt out answers, interrupt
other kids, and couldn’t stay in one place which also resulted in her moving
from one activity to another very quickly. These signs and symptoms had both
Leroy and Susan concerned however, they love Kendall very much and want to
provide her with the support and proper care she may need.
Decision Point
Do Leroy and Susan take Kendall to the physician
to get a confirmed an official diagnosis of ADHD to potentially start
behavioral therapy or do they wait until Kendall starts school to see if it is
going to actually affect her or impact her in any way?
Questions:
1.
What are common signs of attachment
difficulties at birth?
2.
What role does the adoption play on
Kendall’s attachment and behavioral problems?
3.
What is the average cost of an
adoption?
4.
Because Kendall was born premature,
does that have an impact on her potential official diagnosis of ADHD?
Response by Carlyn Part
ReplyDeleteDecision Point: I believe that Leroy and Susan should see a physician to make sure that Kendall will be able stay on track academically. Early diagnosis and intervention can help prevent further developmental delays and the physician might have helpful tips for Leroy and Susan.
Questions:
1. Attachment difficulties manifest themselves in many ways. Infants may not be comforted easily by the mothers voice or even be able to differentiate between a parent or a stranger. There may also be eating problems and sucking problems immediately after birth.
2. The adoption had a major impact on Kendall's attachment and behavioral problems. Because Kendall did not have that constant love and attention from her parents since birth, she has formed insecure attachment and therefore cannot have the same brain development as most babies. The years she spent in the adoption center has affected her for the rest of her life because it impacted her brain development and psycho-social development. Although she was cared for and played with at the adoption center, she still did not have the opportunity to attach to anyone in particular, which is very important for development. Her feeling of security has been challenged and she is not as attached to Leroy and Susan as most babies are to their caregivers. Because of her insecure attachment, she acts out, causing the behavioral problems.
3. The average cost of an international adoption is $44,000.
Source:
Unknown. (2009). Cost of adoption in the us. Retrieved from http://www.creatingafamily.org/adoption-resources/cost-of-adoption-in-the-us.html
4. Because Kendall was premature, she has a higher likelihood of developing health issues, ADHD included. Research shows that being born even slightly premature, raises the chances of developing ADHD.
Source:
O'Brien, D. (2012, January 04). The relationship between prematuriry and adhd. Retrieved from http://handtohold.org/resources/helpful-articles/the-relationship-between-prematurity-and-adhd/